I haven't really posted about this before, but it's getting worse and I can't find anything helpful online and don't have time to search for hours. My dd7 had to be weaned at 9 months because my system was overwhelmed and nursing was causing my health to tank. Ever since then, we have faced a lot of emotional challenges with her. She wants my attention as much as possible, gets very angry when I'm busy with work, will actually start to get physically ill when we haven't spent a lot of time together, gets angry when I try to do something nice with her but it doesn't go the way she wants it to go. She still sucks her fingers for comfort and a few months ago she pretended to be sick to get my attention.
She's currently laying on the floor next to my desk (we've had some mild tummy trouble in the house this week). She doesn't have a fever but she is tired and her tummy is slightly sore. She was doing well so I went upstairs for a brief conference call with a client. My oldest came upstairs and said that she was moaning "Mommy, Mommy" constantly. I came downstairs, but she was perfectly fine and wouldn't talk to me.
I make it a point to let the little kids sit on my lap at some point during the day while I work, I'll call them to help me switch laundry (they love pressing the buttons for the dryer) or make dinner (she loves to do that), I make a big deal about sharing pretty things I discover (like the homemade soap a shop downtown sells), etc.
Her anger is getting worse though and, earlier this week, she purposely scratched her arm with her fingernails while in timeout. No damage, but this is new and really worried me. One of my other children did this twice when they were younger; the doctor felt it was best to just keep an eye on things and see how it went. It didn't happen with that child again.
She won't talk to us when we try to get to the bottom of what she is mad about. I don't know if she even knows. There's just a lot of anger and I feel like I'm walking on eggshells sometimes to avoid her getting moody or mad.
Has anyone else dealt with something like this? I don't know what else to do and I'm getting worried.
She's currently laying on the floor next to my desk (we've had some mild tummy trouble in the house this week). She doesn't have a fever but she is tired and her tummy is slightly sore. She was doing well so I went upstairs for a brief conference call with a client. My oldest came upstairs and said that she was moaning "Mommy, Mommy" constantly. I came downstairs, but she was perfectly fine and wouldn't talk to me.
I make it a point to let the little kids sit on my lap at some point during the day while I work, I'll call them to help me switch laundry (they love pressing the buttons for the dryer) or make dinner (she loves to do that), I make a big deal about sharing pretty things I discover (like the homemade soap a shop downtown sells), etc.
Her anger is getting worse though and, earlier this week, she purposely scratched her arm with her fingernails while in timeout. No damage, but this is new and really worried me. One of my other children did this twice when they were younger; the doctor felt it was best to just keep an eye on things and see how it went. It didn't happen with that child again.
She won't talk to us when we try to get to the bottom of what she is mad about. I don't know if she even knows. There's just a lot of anger and I feel like I'm walking on eggshells sometimes to avoid her getting moody or mad.
Has anyone else dealt with something like this? I don't know what else to do and I'm getting worried.
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